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soc_puppet) wrote2019-09-10 09:26 pm
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...Fucking hell. I don't want to start wank, and this is a person I otherwise find interesting and want to get to know better and potentially have as a fandom friend, but uh. "If you like but don't reblog, I'm disappointed it you?" (Not you,
alexseanchai; I'm linking your reblog because it includes the image descriptions. Also we are already friends, so.)
I feel like this is, in part, a major cultural difference between fans who primarily got started on FF.net and LJ and so forth, and fans who primarily got started on Tumblr. But I'm also not that huge a fan of the whole "Reblog or I will guilt you about it" thing, or the "This is how you fandom correctly" thing, no matter the context.
And I also feel like, if I bring any of this up on Tumblr, it is more likely to turn into wank than a productive conversation, due to the nature of Tumblr as a content aggregation site. Any productive conversation we may try to have will almost inevitably get lost as people reblog from one of us and not the other, and I just. Don't want to go there! Especially since I should already be turning the light out tonight, as I have work tomorrow, and trying to do any sort of damage control or prevention on Tumblr would necessitate me staying up probably another hour and a half, maybe longer.
But also, if I don't say anything I'll be disappointed in myself and probably toss and turn anyway for at least an hour and a half, still without getting any sleep?
So, compromise: Posting about it here. Hopefully tomorrow I'll either have gotten over this, or come up with a diplomatic/polite enough way to phrase "That guilt trip thing you're doing is making me uncomfortable, and the way you're trying to make me interact with social media on your terms rather than my own is not helping even a little" that I can send an ask or something and then get on with my life.
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I feel like this is, in part, a major cultural difference between fans who primarily got started on FF.net and LJ and so forth, and fans who primarily got started on Tumblr. But I'm also not that huge a fan of the whole "Reblog or I will guilt you about it" thing, or the "This is how you fandom correctly" thing, no matter the context.
And I also feel like, if I bring any of this up on Tumblr, it is more likely to turn into wank than a productive conversation, due to the nature of Tumblr as a content aggregation site. Any productive conversation we may try to have will almost inevitably get lost as people reblog from one of us and not the other, and I just. Don't want to go there! Especially since I should already be turning the light out tonight, as I have work tomorrow, and trying to do any sort of damage control or prevention on Tumblr would necessitate me staying up probably another hour and a half, maybe longer.
But also, if I don't say anything I'll be disappointed in myself and probably toss and turn anyway for at least an hour and a half, still without getting any sleep?
So, compromise: Posting about it here. Hopefully tomorrow I'll either have gotten over this, or come up with a diplomatic/polite enough way to phrase "That guilt trip thing you're doing is making me uncomfortable, and the way you're trying to make me interact with social media on your terms rather than my own is not helping even a little" that I can send an ask or something and then get on with my life.
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Sounds like your problem with the original discussion is that you think you're the target audience. Which, if you are not being hypocritical about it (and I have no reason to believe you are), you do not seem to be.
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My problem is that the original discussion involved a bad inference from the wrong evidence, and a moral claim which I think can't be supported.
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if the moral claim you refer to is the guilt trip: I already said guilt trips bad, I am not interested in this time at arguing with anyone who holds any contrary position, and I am not interested in supporting or being perceived to support any contrary position myself. I am interested in addressing the problem that the guilt trip is a perceived solution to.
and I am hearing a lot of you don't think it's a problem at all because—since you don't seem interested in greater visibility for your own work, nor in greater visibility for stuff you want to find that you might not otherwise encounter, and further you don't want to reblog much to your main blog at all and you don't seem interested in having a sideblog (and, to be clear, I do not think any of that is a wrong way to do fandom or to do tumblr!)—it is not a problem for you.
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What if, out of the hundreds of things I scrolled through on my feed, your piece just didn't get into the top 10% that I wanted to reblog?
So no, I don't think like:ratio reblogs are sufficient to demonstrate a problem. And even in a gift economy one isn't entitled to either likes or reblogs. That has nothing to do with my own blogging, which isn't involved in the tumblr "economy" at all.
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It's no longer a gift economy if you're demanding marketing labor as your price, and bad arguments are bad arguments. Arguing first that I'm overly involved and then uninvolved doesn't change that.
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(2) criticizing people for trying to solve problems they perceive to the extent the site architecture allows still doesn't seem the world's best use of your time; if you have a better solution to the problem we're perceiving, then by all means present it!
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Anyway, comment still applies; this is approximately enough of this business for my taste, please and thank you.
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These arguments are not limited to tumblr and don't stay on tumblr. They're also made about ao3 and other sites. And since I'm professionally involved in online community development, I'm entitled to my opinion about how these norms are shaped. As tumblr goes to heck, so does the rest of fandom.
Sorry, like:reblog ratios don't say what you think they say, but I'm done arguing that.
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