Mmm. It is worse to experience '-ism' than to be '-ist', yes, but you have some space to work with here since she wasn't rude directly to his face (as far as I know). Eh, I think I'm saying it badly maybe? >_o
Not necessarily 'nicer', 'nice' doesn't always help.
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Date: 2010-12-03 04:44 am (UTC)Not necessarily 'nicer', 'nice' doesn't always help.