soc_puppet | Happy Trans Day of Visibility!

I came out as genderflux three years ago today. I’m so happy and content with what I’ve learned about my gender and who I am, and it feels like the world fits slightly better around me since I found the words I needed to describe my gender experience. Over the past few years, I’ve become more confident in my gender and more comfortable identifying as trans, even when I’m feeling more strongly female.

It’s still a little tough, wondering how to express my gender, or if it really needs expressing; I don’t think I would be wondering much at all, except that while I understand my gender’s concept intrinsically (naturally), I’m not sure how to ask for representation of genderflux people or what that would look like.

I’m also kinda thinking of asking for people to alternate my pronouns, because I’m not sure I feel as much “myself” as I could with just one set or the other. It’s a little intimidating to ask for, I think. And I’d need to figure out how/when I want to enforce it, as well.

I think I’m going to make those two things my personal trans goals for the next year.