Pronoun Trouble

I get terrible second-hand embarrassment for characters. That's an interesting point about the "can't you see this will be a terrible decision!" feeling. And it's definitely worse for me when it seems like the character should know... if they're truly lacking the information, and only the audience knows it's a bad idea, it gives me less of the bad vibe. (Though sometimes not much less, depending on the quality of the writing.) I think this may be part of why "The Big Mis-" as a huge plot point in a lot of romance doesn't appeal to me...