Pronoun Trouble

IDK, I really prefer to have things spelled out when possible. It gives me firmer ground to stake out if someone actually is offensive, and it gives any community members firmer ground to call me out if I ever screw up! (And it would also potentially mean less work for me, if everyone is more certain about where the line is.) Still, having some sort of "including but not limited to" clause at least shouldn't confuse things too much. Thanks!